Trouble With Strangers pt 1 -Guide
We live in a world where belonging is both deeply longed for and painfully difficult. Political divides, cultural differences, personal wounds, and busy schedules all work against community. And yet, research and Scripture agree: we flourish when we belong.
Paul writes to the Ephesian church, a community divided by culture, tradition, and class, to remind them that God’s story has always been about creating a family of blessing. Through Christ, Jew and Gentile are united into one household of faith—a place where rhythms, resources, and responsibilities are shared.
Households of faith are not perfect, but they are where we practice belonging, learn forgiveness, and display God’s wisdom to the world.
Scripture
Read together: Ephesians 2:19–22
Discussion Questions
Understanding the Text
What stands out to you in Ephesians 2:19–22 about being part of God’s household?
Paul uses the metaphor of “household.” How is this different from just being a “family” or “citizen”?
Reflecting on Belonging
What makes community difficult in your own life—whether in church, family, or friendships?
Can you think of a time when you experienced belonging that was life-giving? What made it possible?
How do the stories we tell (division vs. belonging) shape the way we approach relationships?
Digging Deeper
In the sermon we heard how God’s mission has always been to form a people to bless the world. How does this change the way you see the church today?
How does practicing belonging in a household of faith challenge or encourage you?
Application
Where in your life do you need to take a step toward belonging rather than away from it?
What rhythms, resources, or responsibilities could you share with others in your household of faith (e.g., your small group, church, or neighborhood)?
How might your group practice being a “school of belonging” this fall—making space for both grace and growth?
Closing Prayer
Leader (or all together):
God of belonging,
you have brought us near through Christ and made us part of your household.
Teach us to practice grace, forgiveness, and hospitality in our everyday lives.
Help us to share our rhythms, resources, and responsibilities so that we may become a people of blessing.
May our community tell the story of your love in a divided world.
Amen.
